Well, that’s the word they use to start a debate point. But at this time of year, I like “resolved” so much better than “resolution.” It seems so much more–well–resolved! When I look both words up in the dictionary, resolved means determined. But resolution has lots of definitions that mean everything from a determination to a promise. Which sounds stronger to you? To me, “resolved” just seems to hold more weight.
And speaking of weight, how are those New Year’s resolutions going? If you’re anything like me, you relish the start of a new year because it can be a clean slate, and you can start doing all those things you want–to change things for the better. And if you’re anything like me, you might end up with a resolution list as long as your arm!
In 2011–the start of a new decade–let’s try something completely different. Let’s be resolved (truly determined) to do just one or two important things rather than a laundry list of wishes. I’m going to resolve to change one thing at work and one thing in my personal life. At work, I’m going to REALLY focus this year on getting our book (“The Essential Employee”) out in to the world! And personally, I’m going to try to say “no” more often. My tendancy to say “yes” has often made me so busy I can’t focus on what’s really important. So I’ll try to support myself by saying “no”–to excess food, excess appointments, excess travel, and new tasks that take me away from my work goals. Excess wine–well, OK, I’ll try to say “no” to that also. Those are two big things to be determined about, but I’m ready to give it my all.
What are you resolved to do–REALLY do–this year? What one thing would make you more successful at work? Resolve to do that–don’t just make a resolution. And comment to let me know what that one thing is!
Agree, I like the word “resolve” — it is a commitment and promise. A great deal stronger than simply making a resolution that is easily tied up in endless debate, voting, and rationalization.